I was waiting to let my followers know that i have unfortunately due to lifes pressures, and the fact that i just dont cope under pressure, know that i have had to step down from whiff of joy. I thought i would wait till they announced it on the dt challenge blog, but since i have been removed from their blog i thought i would let you all know.
I am very sad that this is one of the dt's that i felt i should cut back on, however i have had a lot of stress lately and was not gonna air this on my blog, but actually found myself very, very depressed and have had a few days where i didnt even have the emotional strength to get out of bed or see to my family. Having said that, i have found a therapist and am on the mend, emotionally and physically.
Hope you all have a great week
smiles
Paola
About Me
- paola
- Johannesburg, South Africa
- I am mother to four and my wonderful dil Lisa recently blessed us with our first grandchild. I share my life with my indulgent husband, and my love of hobbies
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So sorry to hear that you are not feeling great, but pleased to hear that things are getting better! Lots of love and hugs xxx
ReplyDeleteOH Paola,
ReplyDeleteI'm SO SORRY to hear that you have had a lot of stress lately and the last few days have been very hard for you! I understand your sadness, it's great to be a part of any DT, that's for sure BUT the pleasure of crafting should always be first!!!
I don't mind if you are a DT or not! You make such beautiful cards and your's such a great source of inspiration for all of us that I will keep coming back to see your creations no matter what!
I'm sending you some warm hugs and wishes and I hope you fell better soon!
Take care of yourself, sweetie!
Hugs,
Silvie from France
Sending you lots of hugs and hope you get better real soon. Just remember that you are a very special person and it's you happiness which comes first. Take care
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Paola I am so sorry to hear that. I too suffer depression and have days where I feel I just can't cope but I do get through. Hope your councilling works for you and you are on the mend emotionally very soon. *big hugs*
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Trace
Hi Paola, sorry to hear you're having a tough time at the mo. Sending you big ((hugs)) and look forward to seeing your creations as and when you're up to it. Love Sarah x
ReplyDeletePaola, I recently discovered your beautiful work via your DT cards for Kenny K and Mo Manning. While I'm so sorry to hear of your stress, I am so pleased that you are taking care of yourself. It's so important, particularly for a creative soul. Big hugs from Australia. Dawn
ReplyDeleteHi Paola! awwww hunny I'm sorry to hear you've not been feeling too good recently :( sending you the biggest (((((HUGS))))) & lots of well wishes for a speedy recovery... take care! xx Lizzy xx :)
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers are sent your way, Paola. I am so sorry to hear that you're not feeling so well. I know you're a perfectionist and so hard on yourself - take it easy my friend, don;t spread yourself too thin, and take some Paola-time to recover. Love and hugs, Jen
ReplyDeleteSeinding hugs and prayers that you feel better real soon. Take care, Lisette
ReplyDeleteHi Paola
ReplyDeletesorry to have had to step down from the Whiff of Joy DT but your health and emotional state is far more important. I am glad that you are on the mend though. Perhaps after a rest you will be recharged to start again.
It makes the time you spent commenting on my blog recently even more precious to me
Take care
Love sarah x
Sorry to hear my friend. I really thought that they would relise just how valuable you are to their DT. Their loss and your gain. At least now all(most of it at least) the stress will be gone and you can concentrate on just being you. Your work is awesome and know that all of us value your talent and the fact that you so selflessly share your vast knowledge.
ReplyDeleteWhen one door closes another opens. Depression is a seriously hard thing to overcome, I know I've been there. Take it one day at a time and know how special you are and how many peoples lives you've touched. You will make it through this. Cutting back on your responsibilities will help tremendously. Good for you. Set some new goals and give yourself a reason to get out of bed each morning. Your truly a special person to me and I'm here if I can help in any way!
ReplyDeleteHugs - Jen
Hope you're feeling better Paola. The BIG D... know all about it. Well done to you for acknowledging it. It's never a good thing when your hobby becomes a stress in your life - it's supposed to be relaxing. You and your family come first. Sending you good wishes.
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Melanie
Hi Paola,
ReplyDeleteI don't know you in real, but what I have seen from your projects and your words I know you will pas over this feeling.
Just take your time and enjoy the time you have for relaxing.
I wish you all the best dear!.
Hug's
Renkata
Hi hun
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear things are not much better than the last time we spoke. I hope things improve soon.
Sending good vibes your way.
Hugs
Kimmi xx
Paola,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to read your lines and hear you are feeling so down. I hope things ill get better soon and do not push yourself too much! Things need their time and so do you! Hope you feel better soon!
Hugs across the ocean,
Martina
Paola I am so sad to read your blogg!! Hope you get the right help and start to feel better soon. Crafting will always be there for you just make sure you get better first and are up to it!! Sending you lot's of love and hug's, take care Love Chanelle xx
ReplyDeleteHi Paola, hope you feel better soon. I think if you're not enjoying crafting it's best to cut back on DT work. Hope you're going to stay with us at TG. Take care.
ReplyDeleteKat xx
Im so sorry to hear of your depression Paola, I hope your emotional strength returns very soon and you feel a lot better...take good care of yourself
ReplyDeleteMina xxx
Dear Paola - I am so asorry to hear about your depression. I think it is also very brave of you to write about it on your blog. I found such a lot of support in being able to do this.
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Please take care of yourself - remember - you come first - especially your health. You will know when you want to start doing more again - just take your time, and heal yourself.
Much love
Valxx
Sorry to hear that...but glad to hear that you are looking forward now xx hugs xx
ReplyDeleteYou need to take care of yourself first. DT's are great, but crafting should be a joy not an added stress. Do what you need to do. We'll be rooting for you!
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Paola so sorry that you had to step down from the WOJ team hun, we are going to miss you lots! But please take care of yourself, that is the most important hun! Hope you are all better in no time! :)
ReplyDeleteBIG HUGS~ Kim
Take care of YOURSELF Paola, take time to be selfish and above all give yourself time. Many of us suffer with depression, though few understand.
ReplyDeleteIf you need to talk, just email me with your number or address and I'll be in touch. Lets get through our difficult times together.
Much love
Barbara
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sorry to hear you have not been feeling great! please do take time for yourself, sending bug virtual hugs! Juls
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